Welcome to the new website of the Center for Conscious Eldering!
Some of the pages you’ll want to visit:
- Our upcoming programs, including retreats and workshops coming up this summer and fall. You’ll be amazed at the natural beauty of the venues! You can see from our testimonials that these events are life-changing experiences for participants. Find one that fits your calendar, or consider a custom program for your group or organization.
- Our blog, a growing collection of reflections by Center for Conscious Eldering leaders and other members of the community. Would you like to share your thoughts with other elders? We invite you to submit a blog post for inclusion here. Please see our guidelines for submission.
- Articles by Ron Pevny, introductions to conscious aging.
- Resources for Conscious Aging, a collection of links to multimedia files and online resources for your journey into conscious eldering.
We hope that you’ll find our new website an enjoyable resource. You’ll see photos from Center for Conscious Eldering programs, read about the experiences of participants, and encounter a new paradigm of aging.
As the numbers of people in their 60s, 70s, 80s, and 90s increase, our culture must find a better way to appreciate and integrate the elders of the community. This essential cultural change can begin with us. It can begin here, in our community.
By Susan Manning
Carolyn Heilbrun, a feminist author, wisely said that when thinking of your future, it is helpful to remember your past and “follow your threads.” I decided to learn about becoming a conscious elder because I was overwhelmed with the decision I had made to retire at the end of my next academic year. I have had a fulfilling work life since I was twenty, first in public mental health and eventually in academia as a professor of social work. Work and education have been very important to me my whole adult life. It was in my work that I earned respect, developed self-esteem, and found strengths that made a difference in the lives of others – students, colleagues, clients, and others.
Education “saved my life.” I sometimes share my story with others by saying, “I was a teenage migrant worker.” It is a provocative way to convey a very rocky beginning and to downplay the losses and damage accrued when I, at 15, dropped out of school, married a teenager (17) who was not educated, and traveled across the southwest, living from hand to mouth. In the process, I gave birth to three children by the time I was 18 years old. I was lucky to have a mother who valued education and who worked during my childhood. Following her model, over my adult life I earned a GED on my way to a Ph.D. Education provided the foundation for all of the steps of my work life. Needless to say, I could not comprehend a life without work and the roles that come with it. Who was I if not a therapist, a teacher, a researcher, an author? Continue reading
By Anne Wennhold
Some years back, while working as a photographer and audio visual specialist in the local hospital, I had a wonderful man who volunteered to help me with the audio visual equipment in my department. As a volunteer Carl did what I considered important but tedious work such as setting up and threading the 16 mm projectors for meetings or repairing tape recorders used by nurses to make audio notes on patient progress.
A retired truck driver, Carl was unremarkable in stature or appearance, and rather invisible in a crowd. But his presence was huge. He had a calmness about him that was as effective as laying a soothing hand on one’s shoulder when people or upsetting events interrupted the day.
As we became friends I was curious how someone could be so content with work I considered boring and menial with no prospect of advancement or creativity. And why did he seem to have no huge need for a more glamorous or “successful” retired lifestyle? Continue reading